Family Gathering

Sunday. Did not go to church. Cuz i was so tired from sleeping all day the day before! and watched movies: ALL ABOUT STEVE and yea...

I did not get out of bed until... 4 ish? haha
was about to go to church, but mother decided to go to uncles house!
so we went and we ate... FOOD! we made crab...but i did not eat it cuz i dont like crab. there was papaya salad that was SPICY as HELL! but i liked it... hhaha so i ate a lot of that... and bun bo hue? and other stuff... a lot of seafood! but no OYSTERS! i was saddened! haha

hanged out with the little cousins upstairs... tried to get them all together for a polaroid picture, but none of them would stay still and no one wanted to take pictures! (later on they wanted to, but i was "pissed off" or something so i kinda yelled at them... haha)

hanged out with the older cousins and uncles at the table... talked about:
Boys ----- how they are animals when they are drunk (this is coming from my very mature, awesome, soon-to-be doctor cousin and uncle-in-law). boys can be really nice and a good person when they are not under the influence, but when they are, us girls, need to be careful and not let them take advantage of us! we can go have fun, but the important thing is TO NOT LET THEM TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU!!! thanks for the advice boys. haha
What a "man" should do #1 ----- so... according to them, a man should be the one sacrificing for the girl. it is NEVER the OPPOSITE! if the girl is sacrificing more for the boy, then she needs to stop and find someone else because that guy is not worth it. he probably only wants to get some and thats it..  he doesnt "love" you enough...so why bother. like my cousin, he was dating his wife and she went to OSU, so every weekend, he would drive all the way to OSU to be with her... after work, which was after 11pm! man i did not know that. haha. but wow that was pretty crazy... (ps - it took him 6 months to hold her hand... hahah JK he said.., but patience is a good quality to have)

What a "man" should do #2 ----- he should be paying for the girl/lady/woman... NO MATTER WHAT! (even if you're poor!) NEVER LET THE GIRL PAY FOR ANYTHING!!! my uncle-in-law (pretty funny guy) said that he was really poor when he was dating my aunt and he was like sorry but i cant afford to take you out to expensive places, but we can go to SUBWAY! haha at least he was true to her! and being honest! and PAID still haha.

Friends ----- make good friends. and if we do go out and party or go clubbing, remember to look out for each other. especially watch out for SPIKED DRINKS!!! haha and BOYS!

yea we talked about other things too.. but this is what i remember right now.
oh. a family trip to Vietnam in 2011? i dont know yet... i have a feeling i cant go then... but we'll see.
uhh talked about careers...

BTW, they were drinking Jägerbomb w/ rockstar! and Courvoisier VSOP (cognac)... i was surprised! with the Jägermeister! it was their first time at home. AND it was my first Jägerbomb! it was pretty GOOD! i actually liked it. haha (of course my family doesnt know that i drink...before haha)

 well then there was the trip to VN talk. same old drama. MONEY MONEY MONEY! my mom didnt have a fun happy trip... full of drama. *siigh* and she "disowned" her sister-in-law... haha oh how i dislike my family in VN...

Overall, it was a fun day today. i like family bonding time...